Coffeeshops are a good place to meet and pick up women. You'll meet a different kind of girl there - at least of a different kind of attitude. Maybe the kinds of girl you like.
I like coffee shops for meeting women as opposed to clubs. Clubs are noisy and people there are usually acting stupid due to the consumption of alcohol and the social climate which encourages people to be cool - something most clubgoers fail at miserably.
But I like the trendy coffee shops. Of course I'm always up for getting laid, but conversation and connection is preferred too. Lots of smart, or pseudo-smart, girls can be met at coffeeshops.
The approach.
I'm not always up for walking up to a girl at her table. What I do is a little bit different.
I don't do this methodolically, but what usually ends up happening is I'll strike up a conversation while in line at the counter for coffee, gradually increasing through a conversation of mutual interest until I get her finding me not necessarily attractive, but charismatic and interesting.
After this, I might gesture or verbally indicate that we should continue talking at a table. Once at a table, it seems more like a date dynamic, from there I lead the interaction to one that breeds attraction & trust. From there, once we feel we have outlived the environment of the coffee shop, we almost always go someplace else.
It's usually to a park, or for a walk. If she's receptive to such, I can usually bank on the idea that she enjoys the idea in a romantic sort of way (and so do I) as taking walks and going to parks to enjoy nature are usually romantic activities but not so much as like going to a dinner and a movie that it's overly cheesy romantic.
The intent is to gradually explore interaction and environment that leads to some mutually satisfying (yet unspoken) end goal like going to my place, or sex, or seeing her fall for me.
But yeah, like I was saying, coffeeshops are great places to meet smarty single (and some not) chicks for a good time at low cost.
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