Are some men (the so-called 'naturals') born with the ability to attract women effortlessly? Or is it an acquired skill? The truth is there are some things that you inherit from your father (ie it's in your genes), and many other things that you don't. Looks and idiosyncracies are what you inherit from your family. And not to forget money and property.
What you cannot inherit, however, is CHARISMA. If your father is a charming fella, it doesn't mean that you'll be one. It's a skill to be learnt and if learnt properly, is the most potent weapon in your seductionist toolkit. Being charismatic is the one secret of seduction that would make you a master seducer.
Being charismatic is being attractive in other things apart from your looks. A charismatic man pulls in the ladies by making himself attractive by how he acts and what he says. This skill is learnt 'in the field', ie by interacting with as many women as possible. In the same time, be observant. While in a social setting, look out for men who are in the center of attention, and watch how they play the field. Imitate their behavior, and fake it until you fully internalize the behavior.
It is perhaps liberating to know that the skill of attracting women is ultimately learnable. Be charismatic by observing charismatic men and mimicking their behavior. At the same time, expose yourself to as many women as possible, and practice being charming. You will then well be on your way to be a master seducer.
Derek Rake is the author of the highly popular The Seducer's Vault Report, a directory of free ebooks, mp3s and videos on dating and seduction on the Internet. Sign up at www.TheSeducersVault.com to receive the report for free.
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