Being fat is no guarantee that you'll never be able to pick up women, but believing that being 'fat' excludes you from having success with women will most certainly prevent you from having any luck with the opposite sex.
Jeez. A lot of people want to know this.
"I'm a fat guy and I see a lot of hot women walking around as I wander throuth life, and I want to get some of 'that'"
Get rid of the attitude that says because you're 'fat' it means you can not get chicks.
Now, I'll agree that well, that fatness is not necessarily an asset in attracting women, but it certainly does not exclude you from hooking up with ladies. And being fat doesn't necessarily counteract any positive or attractive characteristics about you.
What I mean by that is make sure to understand the difference between being 'fat', and being a 'fat slob'. 'Fat' people can be attractive to women, but 'fat slobs' & 'fat losers' are not. Make sure that you're only 'fat', and not a 'fat slob' or a fat loser.
There's a lot of guys who are big, but who carry themselves well; they dress well - they wear clothes that fit. They're proud of themselves. They don't look at their weight as a liability that overshadows their personal assests and everything else positive about themselves.
Look around you, you'll see them. You see them every now and then, with a slim pretty woman on their arm. These are men who are big, but who are not ashamed about it.
Being fat is not holding you back. For most big and heavy guys, it's not their 'fatness' that's holding back, but instead, their attitudes regarding their size and how that results in being perceived by women as a 'fat sorry loser' rather than a 'winner' who also happens to be fat and is not down on himself about it.
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