The art of conversation lies in "keeping it going". Do this by asking open ended questions to make your target girl open up to you.
A good way to continue a conversation and increase your chances of actually picking up a girl is to avoid asking closed questions. These are basically questions that result in a yes / no answer.
An example of a yes / no question is the cliché “Do you come here often?” Now if the girl in question even bothers to answer you on this one then the answer is going to be either “yes” or “no”. End of conversation and you are left floundering around for something else to say. To which you might come up with another classic like “Do you live around here?” And, well you can see where this is going.
Instead, you should aim for open-ended questions that force the listener to give more than just a simple answer. These begin with the words, what, where, when, who or how and are sometimes known as information questions because the person answering has to provide some relevant information rather than just confirming or denying a statement.
If you ask, “Where did you get those sunglasses?” or “Where do you go to school?” then the girl in question has to give up some information and continue the conversation. And you will also have more information about her and ammunition to keep talking and eventually get round to getting her number.
Now you know what an open-ended question is, I can backtrack a little and say closed questions are okay as long as you have open-ended questions to back them up with. They are actually a very natural way to start a conversation. For example, you see a girl on a train platform fidgeting and looking at her watch, you ask, “Are you late?” to which she replies, “Yes, I am.” And so you fire in with “Where are you going?” and from the answer to that (work, see a friend, dentist, yoga etc) you should have a couple more directions in which the conversation could go.
There are literally tonnes of single, available and willing women out there in the world, and they are waiting for you! Are you going to be left behind in the race? Or are you going to educate yourself on how to pick up women?
Article Source: EzineArticles.com
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