Have you ever gotten so frustrated with this “meeting women stuff” that you just got out of the dating scene completely? You’re fed up with being rejected, and more than annoyed of never being able to reach women in the first place.
I know, I've been there too.
You’ve probably heard about “The Rules”. We all reach a point of frustration about all those silly social games and we want to give up.
The question is, is this kind of reaction empowering? By reacting this way, do you choose the path of growth and self-actualization? Well, first off, that would mean that you're needing a particular outcome in order to keep going. You’re too emotionally involved with the result.
If that sounds natural, when it comes to meeting women, you've got to realize that you may have to walk a while in the dark before you find the light you're looking for.
Now the opportunity that is offered to you is that you can take a shortcut to your light by having an insight about how to get women attracted to you. So, keeping up with this idea, I'm going to share with you from my experience three alpha attitudes that draw women to men.
As you discover these attitudes, I’d like you to try a new approach. Now you may say, “well that’s kinda obvious.” Please bear with me, I’d like you to re-assess or reframe your beliefs about them. I’d like to see if you are still, maybe, leaning forward the opposite belief in some way.
Ok, let's start with masculine characteristics that women find attractive. There are a lot of traits that you could choose to work on. However, remember that roughly 20% of your effort produce 80% of your results. So here are my favorite traits that will raise your success rate with women if you choose to work on them.
ALLURING Attitude #1 - Guys with good self-esteem
Yes, be proud and happy of being men. Don’t pay attention to what feminists are trying to propagate. We have a lot of things to like about ourselves.
I mean, just take a look at an encyclopedia and check everything that’s been created by guys: tv, beer, video games. Did I mention the remote control? Electric guitar, computers, you name it.
As men, we create cool stuff.
Kidding aside. See, women really notice guys who like themselves.
When you like yourself, women can really feel it. It is visible in the way you treat yourselves and the way you treat people in general, women and buddies.
So the more you develop a healthy sense of self, the more you're going to communicate a personality that’s vibrant. And this will then turn into a "vibe" that women pickup on instantly. It’s all non-verbal.
Of course, don’t turn into a polar opposite or a narcissistic guy who’s too full of himself.
ALLURING Attitude #2 - Guys who project a positive energy
This is not woo woo stuff. What I mean by projecting a positive energy is simply being fun to be around. Not that you have to become a Chris Rock or a Dane Cook but you should definitely develop an edge that gets people intrigued.
How to do it? The easiest way is by being more playful.
Try to think of the times back when you were a child. Being playful means having this slightly childish part of you that you can bring out from time to time in your interactions with women. Tease them a little. Poke them. Tell them they’ve got cooties.
Another cool way of demonstrating this lighter aspect of your personality is to go to places that are fun. Go in places where there's a lot of possibility for physical interaction. You can go near a fountain and drop some water at her or you can go for a walk in the park and piggyback her.
Make a mental list of the cool places you can bring women to. They’ll link the good feelings they experience to you.
ALLURING Attitude #3 - Guys who are confident
Some guys have difficulties with this one.
What does it mean to be confident?
I could rant for ever on this topic.
Let me sum this up this way:
Confidence is simply your full acceptance of yourself. It is to be yourself without any social mask, any guilt or anxiety. You simply don't care what other people think. You don’t look for their validation. You’re perfectly comfortable in your own skin.
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